Friday, September 08, 2006

Our virtues are all social

time to revive an old favourite..take some time to read it if u can..heh=)

Best Society by Philip Larkin

When i was a child, i thought,
Casually, that solitude
Never needed to be sought.
Something everybody had,
Like nakedness, it lay at hand,
Not specially right or specially wrong,
A plentiful and obvious thing
Not at all hard to understand.


Then, after twenty, it became
At once more difficult to get
And more desired-though all the same
More undesireable; for what
You are alone has, to achieve
The rank of fact, to be expressed
In terms of others, or it's just
A compensating make-believe.


Much better stay in company!
To love you must have someone else,
Giving requires a legatee
Good neighbours need whole parishful
Of folk to do it on - in short,
Our virtues are all social; if
Deprived of solitude, you chafe,
It's clear you're not the virtuous sort.


Viciously, then, I lock my door.
The gas-fire breathes. The wind outside
Ushers in evening rain. Once more
Uncontradicting solitude
Supports me on its giant palm;
And like sea-anemone
Or simple snail, there cautiously
Unfolds, emerges, what I am.


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